the elm estate weddings

Diamond Package

a weekend-long celebration, all your own

Starting at $45,000

More Than a Wedding Day,
A Chapter in Your Story

The Diamond Package is not simply an upgrade. It is a fundamentally different kind of wedding.

Two full days of exclusive estate access. Two nights in the Gemstone Cottages for up to 30 guests. Your family and closest friends on the grounds, steps from one another, from the morning of arrival through a lingering goodbye, no hotels, no shuttles, no scattered logistics.


Day one is arrival and your processional rehearsal. If you choose to add a rehearsal dinner, it happens that evening on the estate. Day two is always your wedding day. And if you’ve chosen the morning-after brunch instead, your closest people wake up still on the estate and gather one last time before the weekend closes.

Day One

Arrival & rehearsal

Guests check into the Gemstone Cottages. Your processional rehearsal takes place with our coordination team. If you’ve chosen the rehearsal dinner, the evening is yours — on the estate, together

Day Two

Your wedding day

Always day two. Our team manages every moving piece behind the scenes while you are fully present — from the Beauty Bar in the morning to the grand send-off at night.

Day Three

Brunch & farewell

If you’ve chosen the morning-after brunch, your people gather one last time on the estate — unhurried, still celebrating — before the weekend closes on its own terms.

The Full Estate, The Full Weekend

What’s Included

Exclusive two-day venue access

Five detail meetings

Black or white pipe & drape with lights

Ceremony arch

Elm House Beauty Bar & Billiard Room access

Marquise Room for the wedding reception

White dance floor

Customized floorplan


In-house venue coordinator & event design

Two-night stay – Gemstone Cottages – up to 30 guests

Six ceremony sites & ceremony seating

In-house décor – personal placement & breakdown

Table linens & napkins

Processional practice

Tables & chairs – rustic farm tables

Exclusive preferred vendor list

bride and groom looking at each other

bride and groom walking down the aisle after their ceremony

bride and groom pouring champagne

Two Ways to Shape Your Weekend

Option A

Rehearsal dinner, wedding day and departure.

Day One — Arrival, Rehearsal & Dinner

2:00 pmEstate opens — guests arrive and check into the Gemstone Cottages
4:00 pmProcessional rehearsal with your coordination team
5:00 pmFinal walk-through with your coordinator
6:00 pmRehearsal dinner on the estate — intimate, unhurried, everyone together
9:00 pmEvening winds down · guests retreat to the Gemstone Cottages (night one)

Day Two — Your Wedding Day

9:00 amVenue opens — bride’s party to Elm House Beauty Bar, groom’s party to the Billiard Room
10:00 amHair & makeup, getting-ready portraits
12:30 pmFirst look & wedding party portraits on the grounds
2:30 pmGuests arrive — cocktail hour begins
4:00 pmCeremony at your chosen site
4:45 pmCocktail hour continues — couple portraits on the grounds
5:30 pmReception opens in the Marquise Room
6:00 pmDinner service
7:30 pmToasts, cake cutting, open dancing
9:30 pmLate-night bar — signature cocktails, espresso martini tower
11:00 pmGrand send-off · guests return to the Gemstone Cottages (night two)

Day Three — Departure

MorningGuests depart at their own pace from the Gemstone Cottages

Option B

Arrival, wedding day and morning-after brunch.

Day One — Arrival & Rehearsal

2:00 pmEstate opens — guests arrive and check into the Gemstone Cottages
4:00 pmProcessional rehearsal with your coordination team
5:00 pmFinal walk-through with your coordinator
EveningEstate yours to enjoy — dinner in downtown Reno or a quiet night on the grounds
NightGuests settle in for the evening (night one)

Day Two — Your Wedding Day

9:00 amVenue opens — bride’s party to Elm House Beauty Bar, groom’s party to the Billiard Room
10:00 amHair & makeup, getting-ready portraits
12:30 pmFirst look & wedding party portraits on the grounds
2:30 pmGuests arrive — cocktail hour begins
4:00 pmCeremony at your chosen site
4:45 pmCocktail hour continues — couple portraits on the grounds
5:30 pmReception opens in the Marquise Room
6:00 pmDinner service
7:30 pmToasts, cake cutting, open dancing
9:30 pmLate-night bar — signature cocktails, espresso martini tower
11:00 pmGrand send-off · guests return to the Gemstone Cottages (night two)

Day Three — Morning After Brunch

10:00 amMorning-after brunch on the estate — newlyweds, family, and your closest friends
11:30 amUnhurried goodbyes · guests depart at their own pace
12:00 pmNewlyweds enjoy the estate at their leisure

Diamond vs. Luxury — Side by Side

DiamondLuxury
Starting price$45,000$23,000
Venue AccessTwo full days + rehearsal or brunchOne full day. 9am – 11pm
On-site accomodationsTwo nights, up to 30 guests (included)Available as separate rental
Detail meetingsFiveThree
Pipe & drape with lightsIncluded (black or white)Not included
Rehearsal dayFull day before (included)Upon arrival
Ceremony sitesSix optionsFive options
CoordinationCoordinator for rehearsal/brunch + wedding day, custom floorplan, decor placement & breakdownDay-of coordinator, linens, timeline, floorplan templates
Mid-week pricingNot availableAvailable
Ideal guest count150+150-200
Preferred vendor listIncludedIncluded

Which One Is Right For You?

Choose Diamond if your wedding is a weekend-long gathering

— You want your family and closest friends waking up together on the estate the morning after, still celebrating


— You’re planning 150+ guests and want a seamless weekend. No hotels, no shuttles, no scattered logistics


— A rehearsal dinner or morning-after brunch matters to you


— You want the estate to feel entirely yours for the full weekend

Consider Luxury instead if one extraordinary day is the vision

— You want every dollar working toward the wedding day itself


— You value a streamlined planning process without a multi-day footprint


— Mid-week flexibility and pricing matters to you

chairs and florals set up for a ceremony at the elm estate

Ready To See It In Person?

The Elm Estate is booking for 2026 and 2027. The Diamond Package is available for weekend dates. Fill out the form below and our team will be in touch.