Custom Cocktails For Your Wedding
When it comes to your wedding day, every detail should feel like you—and that includes what’s in your glass. At The Elm Estate, couples can create custom wedding cocktails that capture their story, personality, and style. From classic and elegant to bold and unexpected, our team helps you design drinks your guests will rave about long after the last toast.
Personalized Bar Packages
We offer three unique bar packages, each designed to be flexible and fully customizable. You can keep it simple with crowd favorites or collaborate with our bartending team to dream up signature drinks that tell your love story. We’ll guide you through spirits, fresh ingredients, garnishes, and presentation so every sip matches the vibe of your celebration. Whether you want something bright and floral for cocktail hour or a moody, spiced drink to match your evening glow, we’ll make it happen.
How to Find Your Signature Drink
Finding your signature drink is part of the fun—and it’s all about inspiration. Here are a few ways to get started:
1. Revisit your first date.
What did you drink when you first met? Maybe it was a margarita, an old fashioned, or something bubbly. Use that as a starting point and give it a personal twist.
2. Think about your go-to flavors.
If you’re always reaching for fruity, spicy, or herbal flavors, let that guide your mix. For example, a couple who loves summer sangrias might create a light berry spritz version for their big day.
3. Match your wedding vibe.
Your cocktail can complement your decor or season—like lavender lemonade for a spring wedding, or a smoky bourbon cocktail for an autumn celebration.
The goal? Find a drink that feels like you and your partner in liquid form.
Signature Wedding Cocktails: Hers, His, and Ours
Here’s a peek at one couple’s custom creations from The Elm Estate bar team—proof that when you mix love and creativity, magic happens.
His
A little sweet, a little spicy—perfect for someone who loves a bold twist.
Ingredients:
- 1.5 oz Cazadores Reposado Tequila
- ½ oz Red Pepper Chutney
- ¾ oz Lime Juice
- ¾ oz Pineapple Juice
- Aperol Float
- Ginger Beer
- Garnish: Jalapeño slice
Instructions: Shake tequila, chutney, lime, and pineapple juices together, pour over ice in a rocks glass, then top with ginger beer and a light Aperol float.
Hers
Simple, refreshing, and totally smooth—ideal for those easygoing vibes.
Ingredients:
- 1.5oz Titos Vodka
- 3/4oz Lavender and blackberry puree
- 3.4oz Lemon juice
- 1.2oz Float St. Germain Elderflower Liquor
- Prosecco
- Garnish: Rosemary sprig
Instructions: In a shaker add vodka, lavender and blackberry puree, lemon juice and elderflower liquor. Shake slightly yhen strain and add to a cup filled with ice, finally top off with prosecco and garnish with a lavender sprig.
Ours
Fresh, bubbly, and just the right amount of romantic—made for that wedding-day toast.
Ingredients:
- 1oz Rosemary-Strawberry Puree
- 1oz Lemon Juice
- 1 Bottle of Ginger Beer
- Garnish: Rosemary sprig
Instructions: Fill glass with ice, add puree and lemon juice, top off with ginger beer. Lightly stir and garnish with a rosemary sprig.
Bar Add Ons
At The Elm Estate, our all-inclusive hospitality means you can relax and enjoy every moment while we handle the details. Our team helps you calculate how many cocktails you’ll need, figure out the perfect times to serve them, and coordinate every last element—from bar setup to glassware—to keep the celebration flowing seamlessly. Whether you’re envisioning a champagne tower to toast, a cozy late-night bourbon bar, or a classic martini bar where guests can personalize their own pours, we’ll make sure every detail feels effortless and unforgettable.
Let’s Craft Your Perfect Pour
Whether you’re envisioning one unforgettable signature drink or a trio that tells your story, The Elm Estate team is ready to bring your vision to life. Together, we’ll create custom wedding cocktails that feel personal, look stunning, and taste amazing.